Cathartic Wedding Planning

I've identified one of several issues with "registering". And, since the "registering" process seems to rest largely on the bride's shoulders, I'll be the one to write about it.
Basically, the issue is this: it feels too much like writing a list of things we wish we had, rather than a list of things we feel so fortunate to already have. And, really, the list of what we have is lengthy.
Yesterday my mother was wrapping a gift for me. Instantly, I reacted, "Mom, no! Don't get me anything!" and then blah blah blah, bridezilla, bridezilla, bridezilla. She blew me off and said, "Oh come on, it was fun! Giving gifts is fun!" I forgot about that side of the equation. Giving gifts IS fun! So, anyway, we're registered at REI and Target. I dabbled with some Macy's registry stuff and Uncommon Goods. We still toy with the idea of registering for a honeymoon. What I'd really like to do is register with the universe and all I'd ask for is a bunch of free time. :) Of course the greatest thing we could ask for is what you've already given, and we are very thankful for your friendship!

"What Should We Wear?"

Well, I've been asked that a few times.
First, we won't be ALL that dressed up. Oh, we'll definitely be distinguishable as "ceremonious types", but bustles, trains, veils, shiny shoes, suits and the like will not be making an appearance.
There is a potluck/BBQ, firepit, and a scavenger hunt planned. So, build your wardrobe around practical shoes. I'm really hoping that the "dancing" portion of the reception has people shaking their booties in ways that make them look possessed by jumping beans.
Wear layers and I'd bring a jacket or sweater. It could get cold.
If you plan on staying any length of time, other than for the ceremony, bring clothes for every conceivable type of weather.

Requests? Dedications?

Here's your chance to either a) commit someone else to doing something that could make for some black-mail worthy photo ops, or b) show us all your hot stuff on the dance floor. It's really a win-win proposition.
We are filling out the playlist for the dancing, and need your input? Got a special request? If you request it and it is played, you MUST PROMISE to dance to it! Want to dedicate a song to a special someone? Pick a song, pick a recipient, and let us know why you're dedicating it. You know -- just like back in 7th grade when you'd call in a request to the radio station....
Example: I, Teresa, will dedicate the song "Making Whoopee" by Eddie Cantor to Jeff. Mainly I'm dedicating it because the title is ridiculous... but also because it's probably appropriate honeymoon music. :)
Another example: I, xyz, promise to shake my cake if you play the song "Boogie Man" by kc and the Sunshine Band.
Okay, now go!

Trigger Pulled.

I bought a dress. Yeah. Seriously.
and that's that.
Oh, and yes, the invitations will be coming soon, I swear it.
Or at least, I swear a lot... ;)